All God’s creatures, great and small…
I can’t remember a time when I didn’t have a pet in my life. When I was little, my family had miniature dachshunds – Sam and Bridget. They were always just there as far back as I could remember. They were like little people, each with their own personality and funny quirks. I loved them dearly.
I was in middle school when they finally passed away. They had both been very sick. It is still something that haunts me. (Bridge was the best doxie mom, and she and Sam had the cutest puppies)
In high school, after my parents divorced, I lived with my mom. Knowing I was having a difficult time adjusting, she got me a mixed-breed Spaniel puppy ~ I named her Bailey. She was my savior. I had this little black fur ball that was all mine. I was devoted to her and she to me.
When I left for college Bailey stayed with my mom and her new husband. On trips home, I would be walking up the driveway and as soon as Bailey saw me, she would begin crawling on her stomach to meet me. Her whole body would be wiggling and I swear she was smiling ear to ear.
After I got married, I just couldn’t take Bailey away from my stepdad. They had become constant companions. They needed each other, like I had needed her. He was by her side when she died. I was relieved to know she was not alone.
Hubs and I decided early that our home would have pets. Our first was Bill, an orange tabby manx ~ named for the Bloom County cat. He was the offspring of a feral mom and never really adjusted to being an inside cat. At the time we live in a small house in the country and Bill had the run of the surrounding 24 acres.
Bill was never a ‘touchy, feely’ sort of cat. He never climbed into your lap or snuggled with you. I don’t know if I ever heard him purr. But, I did know he loved us. He was always bringing us little treasures ~ voles, frogs, rabbit pieces-parts, even a fish once.
His death was devastating. I found his cold body on the side of the road one morning when I went for the newspaper. I have never cried that hard since. Hubs buried him under a shade tree and put up a marker. Bill was about 10,
Brandy, a female boxer, was rescued from a woman who had a daycare in her home. Brandy was chained outside to a metal kennel and rarely got more attention than her daily feeding. She and Bill were buddies, and she missed him too when he died.
When she came to us, Brandy was about 18 months old and desperate for real love. She was so tender with our children ~ JM and WK both came after Brandy had been with Hubs and me for a few years. They loved her and played with her as only babies could. She tolerated being used as a pillow, teddy bear and pony with remarkable grace. She was also very protective of them both. l don’t think anyone would have been able to get near them if Brandy didn’t allow it.

DD, our mixed Pomeranian was a bit of a surprise. DD was a dumpster dog ~ that’s where we found her. Someone had thrown her away like so much trash. When we brought her home she was a mass of matted hair, and infested with fleas and about every other sort of bug imaginable. It took me a good three hours to clean her up, and all the while she sat patiently and looked at me with those big brown eye. My heart melted and no one would have been able to take her from me.
A short time after she joined our family, DD was having problems. Whenever I picked her up, she would whine. I was worried she had been injured when thrown in the dumpster, so I took her to the vet. The doctor did a physical exam and took some X-rays. He came out to the waiting room and told me he had some good news and maybe not so good news, depending on me. That intrigued me. Following him to the X-ray room I wasn’t prepared for what I saw on the films. Four perfectly formed puppies. Apparently my little bundle of love was preggers. Maybe that is why she had been discarded. We were fortunate in finding loving homes for each of DD’s babies. They weren’t nearly cute as their mom, though.
DD made the move to Florida with us, but Brandy, didn’t. She was too old and suffering with cancer. It was a tearful goodbye.
DD did not like the Florida heat, and I would shave her heavy coat every summer. Ever the woman, she would hide under the bed for days, or at least until her hair was a little more presentable. DD lived until the ripe old age of 16. I still miss her.
Shortly after we moved to Florida, Hubs and I felt it was time to bring another cat into our lives. If you’re a ‘cat person’ you understand this. If you’re not, oh well your loss.
The first Christmas in our new home, Hubs comes home with his arms all scratched up, hiding something behind his back. Serenaded by the frantic squeals of his children, he pulls out the twin of Bill. He had found a tiny orange manx at the pet rescue in town. The kitten was just meant to be ours.
Buster, named for the main character in a James Herriot’s The Christmas Day Kitten, joined DD. Buster was only slightly more sociable than Bill was. He would snuggle, but only on his terms. He was the alpha male, even when he was outnumbered by females.
The following year we introduced Maxx. We had the name ~ in honor of the Grinch’s dog in Dr. Seuss’ Christmas classic ~ before we had the dog, but it just fit. She took over the task of guardian to our children that Brandy had ably held for so long. Hubs and I couldn’t play rough with the kids without Maxx jumping in to ’save’ them. She would put herself between us, all teeth and growls, until we backed off. I loved that! Maxx will be 13 this fall. Her black hair is peppered with white and she doesn’t move a fast as she once did. I’m no sure how much longer she’ll still be with us. I don’t even want to think about it.
Buster died last year. JM came home from school one afternoon and found him in the living room. He had been with us for almost 12 years. She called me at work distraught. I would have given anything to have been the one to find him instead of her. He was a great cat, and we miss him and always will.
Shortly before Buster passed, we found ourselves faced with another dilemma. We already had one dog and a cat, and were being asked to save the life of another puppy. Were we prepared to take in another dog, another big dog? Apparently we were, and Hershey joined our family. She has been the most loving of all our pets, always wanting to snuggle or be near us. When I come home in the evenings she has to be the first to me, demanding I put my hands on her if only for a moment. She’s then happy and can then lie down quietly. Don’t let the baby picture fool you, Hershey grew up to be a 70 pound bundle of puppy love.
But, our family was still incomplete. So last June, as a gift to our son, we brought home Pollo del Fuego ~ our little Fire Chicken. She wasn’t three pounds soaking wet when we found her. You could literally hold her in the palm of you hand. WK was in love. Just like Bill and Buster before her, Po is a manx. And like her predecessors, is ever so slightly crazy. This little bit of fur can make more noise runny down the hall than both dogs combined. She lays in wait to ambush us and will attack anything that moves. Po is absolutely hilarious.
I hope to always have a pet in my home, in my life. Each of those that have blessed my life so far have either been rescues or found at an animal shelter. I won’t tell anyone to not adopt a pure breed dog or cat, but will always tell them that they will never be disappointed in a rescued pet. Each of these dogs and cats were a part of my family, and when one died, I grieved as I did when a human member passed away. They find their way to your heart and never let go.












I knew Mr. Dingo was the one for me when, as Dingo Girl was lying beside us on the couch and Not a Dingo was curled up on my legs, he looked at me and said, “We have a great family.” I think you’d agree that there’s a huge distintion between pets who are pets and pets who are family.
Thanks for introducing us to your family.
[Tara R.] Dingo… huge difference. I love these animals as if they were human and will grieve as deeply when they are gone.
What a fantastic pet family history. I am a cat person and I can totally understand your need and desire to have a feline in the house.
Nothing hurts quite so much as the loss of a treasured pet, and you’ve certainly had your fair share…
Thanks for sharing these memories.
[Tara R.] CableGirl… I’m sad at the passing of these fabulous animals, but won’t have missed what they brought to my life. I’ve been very lucky with all my pets. Every one has been outstanding.
i’ve never watched a pet pass away (besides some cat fish that we had when i was younger) but in varying ways, i’ve had to say goodbye to five cats. this post? made me want a dog even more than i already do. every cat i’ve had has been some level of psychotic and i’ve always gotten them hoping for companionship.
great post, t.
[Tara R.] Zoeyj… thanks! Dogs are wonderful pets for kids. My kids have always had dogs around, and I alway remember having dogs. I don’t think anyone has a cat as a pet, it more the other way around.
Oh, what a wonderful post! This made my rescuer’s heart smile.
I totally understand the cat comment. When we adopted Lilly, we just NEEDED a cat in our home.
We’re getting 2 puppies to foster tomorrow, and I am beside myself with excitement! That will make 7 dogs in our home, 4 of which will be fosters……but who’s counting, right? ;o)
[Tara R.] Dys Mom… as far as I’m concerned, a house is not a home without a dog or cat. I could not survive without my wonderful dogs and cats. I love what you do, and I’m so glad there are families like yours to help these homeless, but love-filled animals.
That was really nice to read Tara. We are animal people too. I became one after meeting my wife. I’ve buried more animals over the last 13 years than I care to mention but we loved each and every one of them. We have two dogs now and one cat (all rescued) inside the house and a couple of cats that live in the pole barn and keep the horses company. We will always have animals.
This past fall I had to take my best friend Shadow Bear (Husky Chow mix) and have him put down. It was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. We had him for 13 years. He was a very good boy.
[Tara R.] Chuck… our Lab Maxx is aging very quickly now and is obviously having a hard time getting around. I hope she is with us for many more years, because losing her is going to be awful. I’m sorry for your loss.
azwh TARa! i loved especially reading about how bailey greeted you on her belly and wiggling happy all over to see you. i am with you LITTERMATE. i can not imagine ever being without the little companionship of a doggie. i am immensely attached to my little mikni schnauzer luka and i love how he is MY baby and he sleeps on my pillow at night. he howls hello greetings to me when he sees me. he howls/sings. it is hilarious and completely adorable. thanks for sharing such a sweet tribute to our furry friends. *tucking you in doll* beany bear
[Tara R.] Beany…I knew you would get it. I’ve seen where you’ve mentioned Luka before, and knew how important he was to you.
Tara: Your Po (GREAT name, BTW) looks a tad like my first kitten, named Boots for obvious reasons. We had a basket full of bananas on top of the fridge. Boots used to lie on them in that B. Kliban (remember the cartoons of the b&w cat?) “meatloaf” position, with his front and back legs tucked under him. My dad used to say that Boots was “hatching” the bananas! We’ve got two cats now–Patch is 13, and pretty sedentary; Pepper is 5 and still acts like a kitty-cat. Both are rescue critters, as are all of yours. Good for you!
[Tara R.] Melissa B… I think Po has helped Maxx stay young. She is very protective of the kitten and will ‘rescue’ her from Hershey if she thinks Po is in danger. Hershey would never hurt Po, but it’s fun to watch the family dynamic between the three of them. Maxx is mom, Hershey is the awkward teen and Po is the annoying baby sister.
We have a 75 pound black Lab who my girlies think is their dog… She sleeps on their beds every night (alternating between the two), sits by them when they eat their meals (go figure…), and loves to play with them. She travels with us to all of our overseas posts (paying out our a$$ for her airplane tickets). She’s our 1st born – and I shudder at the thought of not having her forever. Not just for me, but for my kids.
[Tara R.] Jill… both of my Labs are fabulous! They travel with us too. I can’t think about what it will be like without either of them. My kids will not handle losing either of them very well either.
TARa,
he gets away with everything because he melts me so. your heart is absolutely in the right place girl, beany bear
i am so attached to luka, yup, i will even hug and snuggle with him when he is wet with that wet stinky dog smell. that’s unconditional love baby!
[Tara R.] Beany… that’s what pets are, bundles of unconditional love.
TARa,
i just had to go and nuzzle luka’s head and his little body and kiss on him just cause we were talking about it. awh, he eats up that cuddly attention. so do i! he likes to steal my little stuffed beany bears and he takes them into the livingroom and chews on them. then i realize one of my beany bears is missing, so i go find it and chastise him sweetly and remind him that he has his own stuffed animals to chew and play with. he doesn’t get it, he keeps stealing mine (and my slippers). i love the little guy to pieces. thanks for the sweet post and reminders, beany
[Tara R.] Beany… it’s not our dogs who steal stuff, it’s the cat. She will carry off anything and everything she can carry.
Our family dog that my parents got when i was in my early 20’s died last year. I saw a photo of him as a puppy the other day & it totally choked me up.
I still miss my first dog Betsy that I had when i was about 8. I loved her soooo much. I always will.
[Tara R.] Eve… WK was two when we got Maxx. He’s almost 15 now. When she passes, it will be really hard for him, I think more than the rest of us.
I’ve had my cat, Bobbie, my entire adult life. I know she’s getting older and most likely won’t be with us much longer. I don’t like thinking about it.
[Tara R.] April… pets are a wonderful addition to our lives. i don’t like thinking about how old Maxx is getting either.
Lovely post. I expect we’ll always have a cat.
[Tara R.] Nola… I think I will always have a pet too.
My pets are a very important part of our family also. I consider my dog Joey my “little boy” and I can’t bear the fact that someday I will have to let him go to the happy hunting ground. However, this should not deter anyone from getting a pet. Studies have proven that surrounding ourselves with an animal friend(s) lowers the blood pressure, reduces stress, increases seretonin levels and contributes to an abundant life! Indeed, animals truly are life-savers!
[Tara R.] Abel2… I know that when I’ve been at my lowest, I can always count on love and attention from my dogs. They have been truly wonderful members of my family too.
Pets are such a wonderful addition to the family. Thanks for sharing. They are all so cute!
[Tara R.] Laura… each one has been so different, and so much fun. I have loved all of them so much.
that is why i love you!! you’re a woman after my own heart!!! i’ve never not had cats. I have 5…again. and a dog. i’m nursing a 4 week old kitten right now…and i’m keeping her. she looks like that picture of your fire chicken…only, delilah isn’t even 3/4 of a pound yet!!
xoxoox
[Tara R.] Mel…. I read your post about Delilah… I love that you decided to adopt her. I would have another cat too. There is just something about a pet that makes a house a home.
agree — pets make a house more of a home. a house without a furry pet might as well just be a museum, devoid of cuddly love. beany
[Tara R.] Beany… they are just unconditional love in a small, furry package.
What a great post, Tara! Our furbabies really are a part of the family! Heck, Madison has her own couch! LOL!
[Tara R.] Stacey… our ‘girls’ have their own beds too, but mostly they sleep on our bed, and they have preferred sides. The cat sleeps with WK.